mindset

What’s holding you back?

I hear it all the time. "I want to write." People say it as if it's not in their control whether or not they write. They even believe they don't get to decide i... Read More...

Hope and Uncertainty

2020 has not become what I thought it would. I thought - after losing my dogs, my dad, my father-in-law, going through an audit and breaking my arm in 2019 - th... Read More...

Still Not Leaving the House

The pandemic was, at one point, a nationally unifying experience. We were all at home, stunned, baking banana bread. A little giddy. A little scared. Keeping ou... Read More...

Smootherator

It's a little known fact about the human anatomy that we each have a Smootherator - that flits between heart, mind, and hand - staying, smoothing, soothing our ... Read More...

Focusing on IF

IF is something we think about - whether or not that IF happens. IF can be worry or hope, and it holds our attention. "If" and its time-sucking cousin "if only,... Read More...